Month: November 2017

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Hand-off the holidays now!  Because, I know that most of us remember the days when the holidays meant thousands of tasks that had to be completed by the December holiday, whatever holiday you celebrate.  Cookies, parties, gifts; and that was just for the kids and school.  Then family packages sent by the last date possible to make sure they arrived.  Buying, wrapping and hiding what seemed like hundreds of gifts, only to forget where they were hidden when the time came to open them (please tell me I am not the only one).  There were so many people in my life back then, so many more than I think I have in my life now.  Having young children increased the number of people in my life by about 50 per child it seemed.  I remember feeling like there were not enough hours in the day, then when I finished that day, there weren’t enough in the next day, until Christmas.  I also remember singing in the church choir on Christmas Eve, getting home at about 1 a.m., filling the stockings and crashing.  I would get up with the kids and do all of the opening on Christmas morning, then I fell asleep for about 3 hours.  Just dead.  Every Christmas.  Crazy!

Enjoy Watching Others Do It All!

So, as I think about all that uproar, and I am over sixty and single, I think about how much I really get to enjoy every minute of the month ahead.  Sure, there is plenty of gift giving and plenty of parties, but the pressure is off.  I am not the head elf anymore and I gladly give up that title and hand-off the holidays.  I watch it all unfold in front of me and I love being a spectator. I have passed the baton and get to watch my adult children take over.  It’s heartwarming for me when they ask what church service we are going to attend (since they don’t have to go anymore) and to know that some things “stuck” with them.

And, I get excited to see what they have for me, not because I care what the gift is, but because it gives me a glimpse of who my children see me as, who they think I am and what they think I will like.  A window into our relationship.

So, enjoy every minute of not being the top dog this holiday season.  Enjoy the fact that you did it for all those years and now have successfully handed the reigns off to children or nieces and nephews or grandchildren.  And, just watch all the seeds you planted for years grow before your eyes.  Now, that, to me, is what the season is all about.